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Jay Daniel Bender

May 28, 1962 — December 13, 2019

Jay Daniel Bender, 57, passed away Friday, December 13, 2019 at his home in Concho. He was born May 28, 1962 in Upland, California, the son of Daniel Edward Bender and Vivian Darlene Collins Muensterman.

Jay loved being out on the water and shared his grandfather’s love of fishing. He worked in sales for heavy equipment, retiring in 2003.

Jay is survived by his son, Cody Bender, Show Low; daughters, Desirae Bender, Show Low; Brittany Dykstra, Quantico, Virginia; father, Daniel Bender, Phelan, California; mother, Vivian Muensterman, Phelan, California; sister, Wendy French, Santa Rosa, California; grandmother, Bea Collins, Glendale, California; and grandson, Peyton Dykstra.

He was preceded in death by his grandfather, Bill Collins and niece, Vanessa French.

Memorial Services will be held Saturday, December 28, 2019 at 11:00 a.m. at the Calvary Baptist Church of Show Low, 241 E McNeil, Show Low, Arizona 85901.

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Saturday, December 28, 2019

Starts at 11:00 am (Eastern time)

Calvary Baptist Church of Show Low

241 East McNeil, Show Low, AZ 85901

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